{"id":1754,"date":"2015-06-17T21:44:03","date_gmt":"2015-06-18T04:44:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/?p=1754"},"modified":"2018-03-01T21:44:32","modified_gmt":"2018-03-02T05:44:32","slug":"short-circuit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/archives\/1754","title":{"rendered":"Short-Circuit"},"content":{"rendered":"

So the adult says that it\u2019s hard to make a living in the performing arts, which is true; and the Young Person Dreaming of a career says the adult doesn\u2019t understand, which may or may not be true. But even if the adult was once a y.p.d. herself\u2014even if she\u2019s now a successful performer\u2014the advice is unlikely to have any influence, because the y.p.d. sees it not as a statement of fact but a test of his commitment.<\/p>\n

The adult plays into this by saying, \u201cIf you can be discouraged from a career, you shouldn\u2019t try for a career.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bad move! The y.p.d. responds, \u201cExcelsior! I cannot be discouraged!\u201d And closes his mind to the very real doubts that have been plaguing him.<\/p>\n

The conversation that might be useful to the y.p.d. and interesting to the adult is thus short-circuited.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

So the adult says that it\u2019s hard to make a living in the performing arts, which is true; and the Young Person Dreaming of a career says the adult doesn\u2019t understand, which<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1754"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1755,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1754\/revisions\/1755"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/boykonpiano.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}